I can not begin to explain the love I have for Coffee. I was in heaven when I worked for Starbucks, Free coffee. Now days I try not drink too much.
I was meeting my dad for coffee today. We chilled out in a little coffee shop in Inverurie. I and my dad tend to do this a lot. It is our “father, son bonding time” as he puts it. My dad is great, we have not always see eye to eye.
When I was in school I was very ill. I had cramping pains in my lower right side. I had these EVERY hour of EVERY day for three years. Constantly at the doctors. All they said was “he is scared of school and using this as an excuse to stay at home” (for the record, I loved school). For three whole years I was teased and bullied by every one at school. My mum did not know what to do; she wanted to believe me but was torn between me and the professionals. My dad on the other hand took the word of the pros. I use to feel he hated me. Regretted having me and all that. One day I was taken to the doctors and was seen by this doctor who was covering holidays for the other docs. I remember him looking over the files and having a good check. His thoughts, “I think this boy has IBS (Irritable Bowl Syndrome)”. At this point it was very unheard of.
He referred me to a professional who then put me on to a special “elimination” diet and with in one month we discovered Milk, Sugar and stress was making me ill.
By this time I was only 6 months away from my Standard Grade exams and every teacher told me I was going to fail. I proved them very wrong. After a month of my diet I was pain free. I was back at school (Still getting bullied) and revising for my exams. I struggled though, found it really hard but pulled through and received middle grades, might not be the best but better that failing.
I think my father felt guilt after all that, he never showed it but I knew. I don’t blame him for his actions; I would probably have been the same.
Now we get on great and I would not change things. I love sitting with him chatting about photography (which he really knows very little about but I am trying) and things in the world or my career. Just drinking coffee, eating scones and giving the staff abuse (in a good way and they love it).
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Well below is a couple of photos taken in the coffee shop Sinclair’s, Inverurie, Aberdeenshire (I recommend the Cullen skink).
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Cheese Scone
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Perfect recipe for a laze day chatting & reading.